The most important thing is what happens after you snap at your children, said all four of the experts I spoke to. Here’s their advice for coming back from saying things you regret, how to empathize with your kids and how to cut down on snapping when it’s possible.

  • Acknowledge your mistake.
  • Give yourself a time out. 
  • Remember that kids struggle with impulse control.
  • If your snapping is frequent, try to get help.